Unheard…
It's truly painful when you pour your heart and soul into your family, striving to provide them with a comfortable life and everything they could ever need, only to realize that your own voice goes unheard. The sense of isolation that comes from constantly offering support and care without receiving the same in return can be devastating. Finding yourself in a situation where your efforts seem to be taken for granted, and where expressing your own struggles is met with indifference or even judgment, can leave you feeling dejected and unappreciated. It's natural to seek understanding and reciprocity within your family dynamic, but when you encounter resistance or a lack of empathy, it can be soul-crushing. The realization that your own needs and emotions are being overlooked or dismissed can plant seeds of doubt and regret, leading you to question the choices you've made along the way. The desire to be heard and valued within your family circle is not selfish; it's a basic human need for connection and validation. The fact that your attempts to assert your perspective or prioritize your well-being are met with resistance can create feelings of disillusionment and sadness. No one should have to feel like their voice doesn't matter, especially within their own family unit. The pain of not being heard can resonate deeply, overshadowing any words that have been spoken or left unspoken.
XOXO Kaye,